There are many things that can destroy the life of a young man, hurt their destiny, stop their growth, slow their progress or block their advancement in life.
All young men should know this things and avoid them.
1. Living Without Purpose And Vision
A friend of mine once said, “Guys of nowadays love Television but don’t have Vision “.
This is nothing but the truth.Most guys don’t have vision, aspiration or even a plan for tomorrow.
You can’t be the best in any trade if you don’t have anything you’re pursuing.
2. Alcohol And Drug
The use of alcohol and drug is another way young men ruin their lives.
When a young man is exposed to drug and alcohol at a very tender age, the effects goes beyond what they ever expect in life, as they easily get inducted into the dark world of crime.
3. Wrong Association
The company a young man walks with, will ultimately determine what he will become.
Choose your friends wisely.Some friends are multipliers while some are destroyers.
A wise man once said “Show me your friends and I can accurately predict your future.The company you keep determines your accomplishments.
Wrong association and information, leads to drugs and alcohol usage.The resultant effects are crime, gang fights, cultism, armed robbery murder etc.
At the end, the law catches up with those young ones and helps them waste many years in the college for stubborn and foolish prison yards.
5. Sexual Immoralities
Lust, fornication, pornography, rape, masturbation etc are all sexual immoralities and serves as a media the devil uses to destroy the life of young men.
Don’t expose yourself to them, don’t company with those that are involved in it because it will end up destroying you.
Hatred of work, oversleeping, indolent lifestyle is dangerous to the life of any single man.
A man, I mean a real man should be bold enough to work, he must be a man of the field, planting and harvesting for his future.
When a man is a lover of his bed, lazy and lukewarm, there’s no way he will not serve his mates and live in abject poverty and penury throughout is lifetime.
Last buh not the least..
7. Love Of Money
Love of money is a great destroyer of many young men nowadays.Some even results in rituals, that later end up their lives soon.
Don’t think without money, you can’t reach that place you desired to be.. And always remember, Vanity Upon Vanity, All Is Vanity.
This thread is meant for everybody.The way young men is destroying their lives in this Society, is appalling.
Are you guilty of any of these? Please it isn’t too late to make a CHANGE!!!
I drop my pen at this Juncture.
Feel free to add yours.